"Now, if I have truly gained Your favor, let me know Your ways (d’rachecha) that I may know you and continue in your favor. Consider, too, that this nation is your people.
And He said, 'I will go in the lead and will lighten your burden.' ""
The verses above are the second and third verses of the Torah reading done every year for The Sabbath of Passover. The scene occurs shortly after the incident of the Golden Calf. In the prior chapters, G-d has made it clear that despite agreeing to not annihilate the people and have the offspring of Moses be the sole inheritor of the land, all is not forgiven. G-d will no longer lead the people through the wilderness, but will send an angel to show the way. G-d is withdrawing.
Our reading this Shabbat starts with the successful attempt by Moses to have G-d reconsider and have G-d come close again and lead the people through the wilderness.
I was struck by the juxtaposition of two concepts in the same verse. What does Moses knowing G-d’s ways have to do with G-d considering “too, that the nation is your people”. Further, what was so compelling about Moses’ argument?
The Talmud in Brachot 7a discusses the components of effective prayer and examines this line as an example. It explains that by asking to know G-d’s ways, Moses is asking the ultimate question about how G-d and the world functions…What is the reason that G-d’s ways include a good life for some of the righteous and suffering of some of the righteous while granting suffering to some of the wicked but a good life to some of the wicked. The Talmud continues by offering many conflicting views of G-d’s answer.
Among these many answers, Rabbi Meir suggests that G-d gives a non-answer. He tells Moses that G-d’s Mercy and Favor are powerful, but unpredictable. We now can see that by eliciting this answer with his skillful question, Moses has given G-d an opening. Moses has in effect said ’Your WAY is at times to grant Mercy when observable indicators call for Justice. Well, “consider, too, that this nation is your people.” If any moment calls for asking your Mercy to outweigh your Justice, this one does.’
Another Talmudic master suggests that the influence of a righteous or wicked parent will often challenge the ability of a person to remain true to one’s own righteous or wicked nature. The successes or failures to meet these challenges may not be visible to onlookers, but they are powerful in shaping the future and shaping the reward or punishment.. Once again, by asking his skillful question, Moses has reminded G-d of the righteousness of the forefathers and consideration of Mercy.
The Etz Chaim Chumash points out the wonderful pun in Moses’ request. The word D’rachecha can mean WAY in the highly cosmological sense of the essence of G-d’s nature. It can also mean the WAY or physical path through the wilderness.
The Talmud discussion of the influence of family on the righteous and wicked hinted to me of the four children of the Seder. Rabbi Miriam Spitzer suggests an alternative translation to the Haggaddah verse “ Kneged arba banim dibra Torah“. She notes that the typical translation “the Torah alludes to four children” could alternatively be rendered as “the Torah speaks ‘k’neged’ AGAINST the notion that there are four children”. There is only one. We are all variations on that one child….The Righteous, Wicked, Simple, Unable child.” Applying our Torah reading to Rabbi Spitzer’s insight, we can see that our Seder traditions reach out to touch all that we are. We address our highly spiritual intellectual selves who want to know everything we can about G-d’s WAYS. We simultaneously address our simple physical selves who just need to eat and be shown the correct WAY of what to do.
We can now return to the Talmud master who spoke to the power of the influence of our ancestors. At the Seder, perhaps more strongly than anywhere else, we recognize the influence of immediate family, ancestral family, and the adopted family comprised of those sitting around our tables who help shape our righteousness and our wickedness. At our Seders we and our families will be engaging and rebellious and ask simple questions and simply observe. May we successfully use the powerful influence of our seders to seek out G-d’s path. May they help us better find the right opportunities in our lives to encourage mercy to outweigh justice.